Thursday, August 23, 2012

I Wish..


I wish to sit and stare
Sometimes talk and share
Listen to your heartbeat
Take you away to Crete

Just us in solace
Spend some time aimless
Let’s start a world anew
With just me and you

In our own oblivion world
Free from drama and stress
Never return to this world
Never ever return to this distress

Will you come with me?
If I ask you to come
Would you like to be the King
Of my unfound Kingdom

Buried deep in my heart
This question might never reach to you
This dream will remain a dream
A dream that I wish to live with you

Monday, August 20, 2012

Mood Swings

Mood Swings, a term common in the behaviour and nature of all human beings. Sometimes we are on a real high and then the next second we don’t like our surroundings or anything else beside us.

We all have been victimized by mood swings some time or the other. When we suddenly remember of an awful incident, heartbreak, about someone who has hurt our feelings, some day to day stress or tensions, the list can be endless like this. Mood Swings are like tequila shots which hit instantly and their after effects takes a while to fade off. We all have our ways to deal with the tormentor, off course we all are fighters. 

Here is my list of some quick fixes which I think takes over the mood swing and our mood, swings in the right direction and we start to feel may be not completely good but definitely better again!

The Top 5 Tips:


1. Listening to Music


“Music is the Soul of Life, So Play On”



This is a Quote which I had heard long ago but has stayed with me since. So, when you feel down and out and you want to get rid of it and that too instantly. THEN. Plug in Headphones, Turn up the music  and Let the record play and Shut the world outside. Hit it off with your two three favourite tracks and afterwards u will feel much lighter and the joy in ur heart and the smile on your face will be back

2. Get a Cuppa



Recently I read a book and the main character in the book, sips tea when in emotional distress. Ditto.. Having a mood swing and cant cope up with it? Grab a cup of Tea or Coffee or any any other Hot Beverage. It will re enegise you immediately, the hot cuppa will take away the drowsyness and negative emotions with it.

3. Talk to your Best Friend


Best Friends are the only people with whom you can discuss nonsense and the best part is that, that nonsense is well respected too. So next time when you feel hard to cope up with a wrong swing. Grab the phone and do some talking or nonsense and get respected for nonsense. Your mood will lighten quickly and world will again become a beautiful place. Yes Friends can have that awesome effect on us!

4. Chocolate



If your best friend is not picking your phone then rush to a store and buy your fav bar of Chocolate. Gobble it down and it can make you feel like a child again. Scientifically choc especially dark choc is known to reduce stress level resulting in instant improvement in mood. Girls, Please don't worry about the extra kilos, you can shed them off when you are in good mood!


5. Bond With Nature



If suddenly you have started feeling low and mood not in control. Go get some Fresh Air. Taking a stroll in the park or just watching the sky blanky for some minutes can lift up your spirits and mood. Looking at birds, fresh flowers, green grass, the sea  can also be useful. All this can prove to be very relaxing and ur mood might get the correct direction


Try any or all of them and if any of it works do let me know through your comments!

Sunday, August 5, 2012

The Friends I have

I have been itching to write on this particular topic for a long long time. and I could not have found a better day to tell them, all of them that how much they mean to me. I call them my life’s support system. I call them without any reason and the best part is that they stick to me through all the seasons. They are the sunshine of my Life. A part of each of them lives inside me and a part of me lives inside them. I am what I am because of them. So let me take u all on a journey and let me introduce to u all my friends:

Pratibha Khemka
My Best Friend


The word Best Friend has traumatized my childhood. Never did I have a Best Friend and everyone around me had one, so I used to have major cravings for one Best Friend, and then God gifted me with the Bestest Gift and Pratibha came in my world. We are direct opposite of each other when it comes to taste and preference but opposites attracts, we make an awesome duo. We have been inseparable for years and have shared the ugliest secret about ourselves. I call her my education as she has taught me the value of money and life. We have awesome telepathy always working for each other and she is the one person who can understand my silence too. We have a pact of dancing till lights are out and surely we are each others Best Dancing Partner. The World would have been incomplete and desperately boring if she would not have been there. Morning walks, ice cream walks, shopping walks, talking walks, we have never run out of walks and talks. Though now miles apart the bond is still strong and I hope this remains life long.



Swati Didwania
Savitri
My Sister from other Mother


When I say this phrase I mean it from the bottom of my heart. She is my soul sister and no matter how angry I am with her actions or words, I just tend to melt at the moment we meet or talk again. She has been my support system my patient ear. She has brought discipline in my life and has inculated some sense of timing in me. She is always on for any crazy thing on my list. Actually I think after staying with me for a while she herself has become little crazy. And Boy! we can talk like really talk, we like discussing everything from people to career, from habits to future husbands, from money to rubbish. No wonder we never get bored of each other. We have promised to become Business Partner some day and I l promise to honor it one day. She has the world’s most comforting hug



Pooja Singhania


Pooja Pajji is what I love to call her. She is my partner in misery as we bear the pain of two same mountains. She is my coochi-koo, ever happy, happy go lucky friend. In school, used to make her study at midnight over the phone and now we always end up calling each other when we want to bitch about anyone on earth. I love teasing her for her slow speed and her bad habit of not willing to walk much. We understand each others sarcasm just perfectly and I love it. Pooja is bindass and a as well as homely creature and my ultimate dirty dancer (Pooja remember Beedi Jaliyele and Billo Rani).



Vidhi Bajoria


Vidhi’s name on my phone is Veeedheee,  a name given by some classmate nevertheless it has remained with me since then. In school we have had fought the same demon together called Mathematics. She has recently become real girly lady type and I cannot disclose the reason here. When it comes to cards and creativity nobody can touch her. She makes amazing pastas and bake dish (puts dollops of butte in them). I had this notion that friendship once starined never gets to what it was before but Vidhi has proved me wrong because we have become even better friends now.



Prerna Parakh


Paromita Ma'am was responsible for our friendship as our friendship flourished as seat partners. She has been again one of my oldest friend but we really got to know each other in class 8. We had a lot in common like our love for studies, projects, tests and exams. We would attempt the same question n options even if we were sitting two corners of the class. We even changed schools together. Our thoughts and frequency were in sync almost all the time. We have had the best times together



Priti Agarwal


A wicked smile comes to my face when I think of her. I have always hit off excellently with all my friends, ditto with her too. We met first time in college and our chords struck together so well that people used to think we knew each other from before.  She is the ultimate cook who I really look up  she makes lip smacking saliva drooling pasta. She has a kick ass attitude towards life and I love it. We have had joyful scooty rides. She has taught me hookah and various uncensored things. My BBM is alive because of her. My weekends remains incomplete if I don't meet her. She has become my ultimate partner in crime



Neha Agarwal


My first friend in school, we were seat partners in Class 1 and friends from then, it been 17 long years (yes I’m Bragging) now I call her Baby Neha , not because of her height but because of her under developed brains. I still remember in class we used to crack the simplest double meaning jokes and she would blankly stare and would ask to explain, this is her sheer innocence. We may not be in touch for months but when it comes to catching up again, we always pick up from the place we left.



Anu Mundhra


My aries twin, we have too much in common especially our trait of forgetfulness which by the way I have overcome but she is still stuck there(sorry anu)(joke tha). We met through pratibha. Anu n really bonded during the time of Prati’s marriage. She is sweet very caring and an expert when it comes to quotations and cards. She has the patience of a saint and she is saint types in many ways. She is always confused but I love to clear that out whenever given a chance. We had a Ball in delhi and there is a walk to remember between us. Anu I hope u remember it!



CAT Group


When I used to watch F.R.I.E.N.D.S, I used to wonder will I ever find a set of friends similar to them, yes indeed I found them, my version of F.R.I.E.N.D.S - Juice, PD, Maggi, Sunny n Ritesh. We are fun we are hilarious we are cheap we are sophicticated we are studious we are irritating, all at the same time we all have had a great time together giving mocks in ims class, pulling each other;s leg later, giving all mba entrance exams together, endless hookhak sesiions, pooja pandal hopping , early morning breakfast sessions bon appetite karoke sessions we have done it all in such short span of time. A very memorable journey indeed.
P.S I think I haven't told you guys so I will take dis opportunity, I loved the surprise that you all gave me on my 2012 bday, I wasn't expecting you all and it was wonderful to see the full gang that too early in the morning.. You guys made me feel realy special.. Thank u!!



Office Friends- Poonam Soumen Da Soumita Di


Poonam.. I never believed that friendships can develop in small tym but then they say its not how long u have know each other, its how much u know each other. I had promised myself that in office I wont make good friends as to keep professional and personal life separate but then u came in and changed all of it. We chatted, hardly worked, shared everything, did everything together and it was nothing but terrific to sum it up. Poonam is one girl who is extremely caring and will go the extra mile too just to make u feel special. Privilige to be yopur friend.



Soumen Da. Wat can I say about him, he knows way too much about me and the best part is he is never judgemental I thank Supreme that he brought him in my life, he is ever caring again with a patiemt ear, he has done his goof ups and confided even I have. He loves his sweets and fish. We might not be still working at the same place but we surely stay connected and updated.

Soumita Di. My right hand in office, an extremely talented poet, her passion is to make collages and surely she showers me with so many of them. She is very helpful and caring and I swear I had never thought we will become such good friends. She keeps on motivating me and helps me to bring the best out of me. Now she is about to leave office and I will miss her a lot!



Jay Ghosh Khemka


I love his nickname but he hates it so better I don't use it! He loves being called as Jay. I tell you he is one hard working guy with full of morals and manners and ethics. He is fun to talk to even funnier to text with. The craziest thing we have done together is watched two back to back movies and we intend to make that 3 back to back movies someday. 





The three of Us


We have had more fights than fun but my college life’s begining was marked with their friendship we have had good times and I would love to see the good part of it. We have had an insane time together with  lots of time spent in Anuja's PG doing utter nonesense talks. They have made my bdays in college fabulously memorable something I will cherish for the rest of my life. Still in touch with Anuja and we are on n off at tyms. She is a lil crack and it surely suits her too!!




Aarti Bharti Shreya Acharya Chunnu


I say their name in one go and in this particular order because I love it. They were my first proper group of friends. A mix of seniors and junors all staying in one locality and we surely rocked our school bus. Acharya was always the centre of jokes but damn sporting, Aarti was too simple to understand all this and Chunnu never stopped cursing and Bharti Shreya used to be there in their own sweet world only but we were a fun bunch and have created riots and stuck by each each through thick and thin.. Its been almost 10 long years and now some are getting married. Its been a long journey with them and I can bet it is an endless one



And I would like to dedicate this which is my favorite friendship songs to all of you….

So no one told you life was going to be this way. 

Your job's a joke, you're broke, you're love life's DOA. 

It's like you're always stuck in second gear, 

Well, it hasn't been your day, your week, your month, or even your year. 
But, I'll be there for you, when the rain starts to pour. 
I'll be there for you, like I've been there before. 
I'll be there for you, cause you're there for me too. 





HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY