Grey's Anatomy Quote

Here is a Quote from Grey's Anatomy by Meredith Grey!
I am completely head over heels for this Series and these particular lines gave me goosebumps,here are they::

"There is a reason I said I'd be happy alone, it wasn't because I thought I would be happy alone, it is because I thought if I loved someone and then when it fell apart, I might not make it, its easier to be alone because what if you learn that you need love and when you don't have it and what if you like it what if you shape your life around it and it falls apart. Can you even survive that kind of pain? Loosing in love is like organ damage its like dying. The only difference is death ends, this it can go on forever."
- Meredith Grey

Deep Down Somewhere.....

deep down somewhere

beneath the smile

a pang rises

but gets suppressed somewhere

may be you are still here

a part of you

never forgotten

yes you are still here

a series of mistakes

a long pause

time they say

is what it takes

looking at the horizion

cant find a way

how do i

how do i move on........

10 Commandments of Life by Swami Vivekananda

1. Life is Beautiful

First, believe in this world - that there is meaning behind everything. Everything in the world is good, is holy and beautiful. If you see something evil, think that you do not understand it in the right light. Throw the burden on yourselves and you will realize that Life indeed is Beautiful!!

2. Set Yourself Free 

The moment I have realized God sitting in the temple of every human body, the moment I stand in reverence before every human being and see God in him - that moment I am free from bondage, everything that binds vanishes, and I am free.

 3. Love is the Law of Life

All love is expansion, all selfishness is contraction. Love is therefore the only law of life. He who loves lives, he who is selfish is dying. Therefore, love for love's sake, because it is law of life, just as you breathe to live, live to love.

4. It's Your Outlook That Matters 

It is our own mental attitude, which makes the world what it is for us. Thoughts gets converted into actions. Our thoughts make things beautiful, our thoughts make things ugly. The whole world is in our own minds. Learn to see things in the proper light.

5. Don't Play the Blame Game 

Condemn none: if you can stretch out a helping hand, do so. If you cannot, fold your hands, bless others, and let them go their own way.

 6. Help Others

If money helps a man to do well to others, it is of some value; but if not, it is simply a mass of evil, and the sooner it is got rid of, the better.

7. Uphold Your Ideals

Our duty is to encourage every one in his struggle to live up to his own highest idea, and strive at the same time to make the ideal as near as possible to the Truth.

 8. Listen to Your Soul and

 You have to grow from the inside out. None can teach you, none can make you spiritual. There is no other teacher but your own soul.

9.  You Have the Power

 All the powers in the universe are already ours. It is we who have put our hands before our eyes and cry that it is dark. Nothing in this world is impossible if you focus.

10. Be Yourself

The greatest religion is to be true to your own nature. Have faith in yourselves! 

Books Update

Books are a man's best friend, the days of diamonds and all are gone. No one is so busy that they cant spare sometime for taking a book in their hands and go to a corner of the house and get engulfed in the story. Only an avid reader can tell you that books are the treasure of mankind.
I don't vouch to be an avid reader but I certainly try and take out some time to enrich myself and go on a trip to the imaginative world created by the authors. Here is some of my efforts of 2012. As I said earlier the list is not a jaw dropping effort but certainly the journey of thousand miles starts with a single step!

 My List of Books that I read in the year 2012

1. Revolution 2020 by Chetan Bhagat

2. Rebecca by Daphne du Maurier

 3. The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo by Stieg Larsson

 4. The Immortals of Meluhas by Amish

 5. The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch

6. The Secret by Rhonda Byrne

 7. Can Love Happen Twice by Ravinder Singh

8. If God was a Banker by Ravi Subramanian

 9. The Secret of the Nagas by Amish

 10. Fifty Shades of Grey by EL James

11. Fifty Shades Darker by EL James.

12. Fifty Shades Freed by EL James

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year

Better Late Than Never!

The most hyped year of the entire universe met its anticlimax on the 21st December, the Mayan Calender predicted the End of the World but Alas! We are Alive. This is the beauty of life and death, you cannot bind it in chains, you cannot force its beginning or predict its end or control its journey. All you can do dance in the drizzle, face the wind and sing to the tunes of life and when the time comes embrace death with grace.

The past year like any other year had been eventful and the year that has begun is promising to be even more challenging and happening.Started with CAT Results which were depressing, and rightly had to be because my effort wasn't 100 percent, but as the wise have said let bygones be bygones!

Then out of no where I did something that I had been meaning to do for some days or may be some months, I went to a Toastmasters meeting and I never looked back after that, it was a whole new world and the experience was different. I started getting involved in Toastmasters and my communication skills and my presentation skills have grown leaps and bounds. It encourages me to stay upbeat about current affairs and also has boosted my habit of reading. It is my break from the chaotic life and instills peace in me. One very crucial thing that I have learnt at toastmasters, it is not how to stand up and speak but its how to sit down and shut up and listen.

The year like any other year was again full of ups and downs, challenges and treats. And I had expected nothing less from it.. In the end the year 2012 was totally worth it!

Me..

When you feel sad and betrayed
Who can you count on every single day?
When you feel lost and alone
Who will be there for you in every way?

When you've made mistakes and bad decisions
Who can you count on to tell you you're wrong?
When you feel you can't go on
Who will be there with a feel-better song?

Look into your heart and you will find
That person you can trust is not far away.
Look deep into yourself, don't give up,
For if you do, it's yourself you'll betray.

When you're looking for answers
To all your questions and dreams,
There is one person you can count on,
It's impossible, I know, it seems.

But take a few moments to look deeper inside.
Look into your heart and there you will see.
You'll be surprised when you find out
That you've been looking at ME..

Simple or Complex

Life is utterly simple and yet most complex. You have to simultaneously attend to both facets of life. When life appears most complex, turn to the simplicity. Simplicity brings peace. When you are peaceful, attend to the complexity within you. That will make you more skilful  If you are only with simplicity, it makes you lazy and dull. Being only with complexity makes you angry and frustrated. The intelligent ones balance them and rejoice in both. If you look only to simplicity, growth is not there. Looking only at the complexity, there is no life at all. All that you need is a skilful balance. If you recognize both simplicity and complexity of life, you will be skilfully peaceful! Colours are the complexity of life. White is the simplicity. When your heart is pure, your life becomes so colourful.

Enjoy being simply complex or complexly simple, this is your life, live it the way you want on the terms you want, live life with no regrets, because at the moment of doing it, you were sure of it!!Open your heart, let people peep in sometimes and if you complaint of being way too open, learn to zip it up. Simplicity in life can be utterly monotonous and boring so try complexity and experience the adventure but all said and done enjoy the moment whether dismally simple or utterly complex!!!